How to Make “Act as If” Work and Own It -3 Ways

Make Act As If Work for You

by Dorothy Wehunt

Most of us have heard of the self-fulfilling prophecy. Or Act as If. “Whatever we expect with confidence becomes our own self-fulfilling prophecy,” said Brian Tracy. (BrainyQuote, 2001-2018, Accessed August 28,2018. https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/brian_tracy_384549?=t_self-fulling_prophecy).

But how many people believe in it or sluff it off, thinking, “It works for others, not me.” Or, “They had what it takes.”

Why Not Manage Stress Successfully -5 Steps

Manage Stress Successfully

by Dorothy Wehunt

Have you ever thought that you would not have any stress if you did not have so much to do? You have thought if only I did not have so many interruptions. Or if others would do for themselves, I could finish my task on time. Or do you believe that there is not enough time in the day. Most people have felt or do feel this way at one time or another. So why not manage stress successfully with the following proven strategies.

Make Your Value More Important

Make Your Value More Important
Make Your Value More Important

by Dorothy Wehunt

To appreciate yourself is to raise and expand the value of the good in you. It is to find ways to make your qualities more valuable and thus more valuable to you. Thus, you make yourself important to you and feel important. People hunger to feel important.

‘Why Build Self-Esteem’

Build Self-Esteem
Build Self-Esteem

by Dorothy Wehunt

Many people feel comfortable in some situations and uncomfortable in others. Do you feel good about yourself wherever you are and with whomever you come in contact? Or are there some situations where you wish you felt more confidence? If your answer to the latter is yes, you want to read ‘Why Build Self-Esteem,’ the first chapter of my book, Build Self-Esteem.

Assertiveness and Self-Esteem

Assertiveness
Assertiveness and Self-Esteem

by Dorothy Wehunt

Assertiveness is a method of expressing your needs and wants. To do so is to stand a better chance of getting them met. It is standing up for yourself and choosing to take right action to reach your goals. People with high self-esteem and confidence find it easier to assert themselves. With assertiveness, you:  

If You Want to Accept Yourself, Let Go Five Things

Accept Yourself
If You Want to Accept Yourself, Let Go of 5 Things.

by Dorothy Wehunt

To accept yourself is to love yourself. It is self-caring or being empathetic to yourself. And It is nourishing yourself. If you want to accept yourself, let go of the five things below:

Self-Esteem: The Crucial Factor for Success for 3 Reasons

Crucial Factor for Success
Self-Esteem: The Crucial Factor for Success

by Dorothy Wehunt

Self-esteem is the reputation one holds with oneself. It is appreciating one’s worth. And feeling satisfied with who you are. Thus, it affects your confidence in your ability to reach your goals and thus achieve success.

7 Reasons to Become Self-Reliant

Self-Reliant
7 Reasons to Become Self-Reliant

by Dorothy Wehunt

Self-reliance is knowing you can stand on your own two feet. It is listening to your inner guidance or nudges, etc., rather than to others. Or to external factors. When you are self-reliant, you believe you can do what you need to do to become successful and take care of yourself. Then, being self-reliant is having the essential component for developing high self-esteem and confidence.

To develop self-reliance, you want to do the following:

8 Strategies to Assert Yourself Confidently

Assert Yourself
8 Strategies to Assert Yourself Confidently

by Dorothy Wehunt

Assertiveness is a powerful form of communication that you can use to take care of yourself while building positive relationships. If you assert yourself appropriately on a regular basis, you build self-esteem to the degree that you: